Friday 29 July 2011

Relationship Rules

Oh, wow! Relationship rules actually exist? Most definitely – and these wise conventions can be applied regardless of whether your relationship is serious or casual, long-term or short. Here they are:
 
Be yourself - Don't ever lose sight of yourself.  Like, even love yourself and put your happiness first. You can make others happy only if you are joyful. Other than ensuring you have a positive attitude and strong self-esteem, also ask yourself if you are mentally prepared to date again before you start a new round of meeting potential partners.

Establish true intimacy with great communication skills – This means getting through clearly to the other person, both verbally and nonverbally. There is no way your relationship is going anywhere in terms of closeness and love without establishing excellent two-way communication between both of you. Don’t be satisfied with just pumping blood and superficialities. Learn to talk about anything and everything – not just your present interests, but your future goals and aspirations as well.

Learn good negotiation skills – Often excellent communication needs to be supported by negotiation. Often issues can arise in a relationship that must be dealt with using both, and the partners involved must consciously work through any conflict with true respect for each other in order to ensure the relationship sails through any stormy patches. 

Use TLC on your relationship to nurture it – Tender loving care in the form of respect, appreciation, kindness, reciprocal, and attentiveness on a daily basis ensures that you display how much you value and cherish your partner’s involvement in your life.

Try to make each date enjoyable – Attempting to make your date a fun one and your partner enjoy himself or herself not only makes you feel great, but also shows that you care and that you are attracted. Don’t be overly concerned about making the date an expensive affair – that matters much less in your partner’s mind than how much fun it was.

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